|My grandmother in Toledo, Spain, 1968.|
In August of 1997 at 81, she was exchanging letters and phone calls weekly with Mina, a woman she met while both were being raised in a Masonic home in Covina, Calif., while still battling ants in her kitchen and fretting about having to take a test to renew her driver's license.
Unfortunately, she was also still avoiding the donut shop where she had befriended the owners and most of the other regulars. More on that in the July entries.
Friday, Aug. 1, 1997
Walked on West Cliff.
To Longs for BP, paper.
McDonald's, got coffee & muffin (mall).
To Credit Union, put $5,000 in CD for 3 years, 6.5%
Forgot rent. She leaves at 3 p.m.
TV: Star Trek, TNG.
Saturday, Aug. 2, 1997
Up 7:30, tea.
Called Mina, talked 1 hour. She stopped taking blood thinner.
Wrote more of letter, sent article on HMO.
To Longs, BP, paper.
To library, got video: “When the Cat’s Away.” Some fun, but main girl dumb.
Home, lawn. Read papers.
Sunday, Aug. 3, 1997
Put up new shades on two windows. First goofed, second no problem.
TV: Dodgers vs. Cubs, some 60 Minutes, X-Files, La Femme Nikita.
Monday, Aug. 4, 1997
Call at 3:33 a.m. Did not answer.
Not best sleep. Sun bright.
Cleaned kitchen sinks with Pine-Sol, hope keeps ants away.
Longs, paper & BP.
Safeway, corn, zucchini, forgot deodorant spray.
Put up two more shades , then vacuumed some walls and floor. Moved bookcase in bedroom, swapped TV and shoes.
TV: News, Poirot, Miss Marple, Suddenly Susan, Cybill, TNG.
Tuesday, Aug. 5, 1997
Up 8. Tea.
Some cobweb cleaning. Watered lawn.
To Longs 11:45, Vibol in parking lot. Said hello.
Got Osteo check at Longs, 30% down on bone mass.
Ran Morse tape, Law & Order new to me.
Wednesday, Aug. 6, 1997
Up 8:30. Radio static. To Myra’s, tried radio.
To Longs, got cans of Mandarin oranges.
To Wherehouse, got two videos.
To library, read on Osteo.
To “English Patient” again.
To market, got a few nectarines and peaches.
Ran “Lost Boys.” Loud.
Bed, no sleep til 2 a.m.
Saturday, Aug. 9, 1997
Tea, cereal here.
Walked on East Cliff, some high waves.
Longs, BP, etc.
To Gembrokers, appraisal. Nice man.
Got fish and chips!!
TV: 49ers over Seahawks.
French, news, Faulty Towers.
Sunday, Aug. 10, 1997
Up 8:30. No electric blanket. Radio static.
Walked, many in surf, parking lot full.
Tennis: Sampras, Seles won.
Some golf, wrote letters.
TV: News, Siskel & Ebert, Silk Stalkings.
Monday, Aug. 11, 1997
Wrote checks for girls.
Longs, BP. Bank, post office.
Planted Lobellia and Forget-me-nots.
Talked to Margaret.
Warm. Larry cut Myra’s grass. Cutters came same day, swept.
TV: News, Poirot, Marple, Cybill, TNG.
Tuesday, Aug. 12, 1997
Watered lawn with fertilizer.
Ronn in LA, good talk.
To show, “George of the Jungle.” Some fun.
Home, washed white curtains.
Mary to Marie Callender’s. Soup, pie.
Home, ironed curtains.
TV: Morse, Law & Order. Fraiser, TNG. Only watched 1/2 hour, tired.
Wednesday, Aug. 13, 1997
Radio, tea, cereal. Ronn controversial.
Washed middle room windows, put up curtains.
Kmart, checked BP, got chicken sandwich. Gave boy seven cents.
Got ankle hose, TV Guide.
Mail: Letter from Mina.
TV: News, Dodgers lost, Giants lost.
Star Trek Voyager, TNG.
Thursday, Aug. 14, 1997
Washed car & hosed west side of mobile home.
Longs, BP, then Albertsons and Trader Joe’s, got ginko for Mina.
Home, golf. To bank to deposit Mina’s check, $14.81.
DMV, made appt for license.
TV: News, some Benny Goodman program.
Friday, Aug. 15, 1997
Next door yelling at 7 a.m.
Up 9:05, tea.
Golf, Tiger to start at 10.
To Longs, BP, got Kleenex and muffins.
Mall, looked for “Polish cloth.” Got scarf, black hat, purse.
News at 11, UPS scandal.
Saturday, Aug. 16, 1997
Not good sleep.
Longs, BP + paper.
Home, message from Carol. Sentinel has article on Vibol.
Golf: Tiger not putting good, anxious.
Kmart, got wipes and dish soap.
To show, “Shall we Dance?”
Sears, got coin purse. Almost got purse.
Library, got 3 videos.
Sunday, Aug. 17, 1997
Up 8, golf.
To Albertsons, got lettuce, peaches.
Called Carol to thank her for calling yesterday. She getting ready for art showing.
TV: “Great Moments of Opera,” checked 60 Minutes.
To Trader Joe’s, more fish.
Not good sleep, Larry up calling, "Kitty."
Monday, Aug. 18, 1997
Awake 7, up 9. Ronn had psychic.
Longs, BP, Valerian, cayenne/garlic.
Wrote Mimi, Mina.
Football: 49ers lost to Jacksonville.
Saw MIR pass over 9:29 p.m., moon bright.
Tuesday, Aug. 19, 1997
Up 9, ate here.
Some chores, watered lawns.
To show, “Conspiracy Theory.” Good, Mel Gibson gives good performance. Patrick Stewart is “bad” man. Show long.
TV: Taped Mad About You, Frasier. Watched X-Files rerun.
Bed, news, Letterman.
Wednesday, Aug. 20, 1997
Awake 7, up 9:40. Slept again.
Tea, walked. Felt dull.
To Longs, BP out of order.
To DMV. Passed written, but eye test difficult.
To Kmart, ice cream.
Thursday, Aug. 21, 1997
Worked in yard. Put plastic green between Larry and me.
Longs, BP still out of order.
To Beacon to put air in tires.
To Kmart, ate lunch, got “Gum-out.”
Two hours to write letter to Prudy, big, sent Justine's card.
Sunday, Aug. 24, 1997
Up 8:30. Breakfast McDonald’s!
BP at Longs.
Walked on East Cliff.
Hot today. Beautiful day!
TV: 60 Minutes, part of “Man Without a Face.”
Monday, Aug. 25, 1997
Up 7:30, watered lawn. Some chores.
To Longs, BP low. Got TV Guide, fruit.
To McDonald's, had decaf and muffin.
To Kmart, got gas and BP.
Looked for cardboard box, changed car box -- oil, etc. -- into new box.
Cleaned shelves a bit, took to dump.
Bed 10:30, tired.
Tuesday, Aug. 26, 1997
Awake 5, back to sleep. Up 9.
Tea, cereal, walked.
Wrote girls re no deposit 9/1.
To post office, got stamps.
To Trader Joe's, got sorbet.
TV: Tennis, NOVA, Frasier, TNG.
Wednesday, Aug. 27, 1997
Up 7:15, awake 6.
Checked oil, talked to Eloise.
Justine called, changed number.
Changed pots and plants around.
Larry home, talked a bit.
TV: More tennis, TNG.
Thursday, Aug. 28, 1997
Watered back, weeded.
Tennis rain delay.
Longs BP out of order again!
To mall, Lily there. Eye trouble, growth on nose. Will not have it removed.
Gottschalk’s, sale on: Got denims, matching top.
To library, returned videos.
To show, “Mrs. Brown.” Good, need to know history!
TV: Tennis, Diagnosis Murder, TNG.
11 news: Dog who sniffs termites!
Friday, Aug. 29, 1997
Up 8:30, ate here, low-fat muffin.
Longs BP OK.
Home 2 p.m. News, typed report of arthritis.
TV: Tennis, Dodgers vs A’s. Dodgers won in 10th inning. 5-4.
Saturday, Aug. 30, 1997
Breakfast Egg McMuffin.
Walked East Cliff 9 - 9:15.
Checked Thrifty for purses, none.
Longs, BP out of order.
To Kmart for eggs, ham, muffin.
News: Princess Diana killed in car accident in Paris, in Tunnel Pont de Alma. Chauffeur also killed. Watched TV til 1 a.m. Radio also.
Sunday, Aug. 31, 1997
Awake 7 a.m., up 8:30.
Radio a bit.
Tennis: Seles won, Venus Williams won, Agassi won.
Changed coolant, watered lawn. Talked to Eloise next-door.
TV: 60 Minutes devoted to Diana, car traveling in excess of 100 mph.
More on my grandmother: In 1997, she was living alone in a mobile home park in Santa Cruz, Calif., but I wouldn't describe her as lonely. She was an extremely independent and persnickety woman whom I never knew to live with another person or even a pet. (I wrote more about her life in an earlier post.)